Friday 31 July 2015

Short Hair, Don't Care!

Hellooooh!

I've always had long hair growing up and it, at one time, got to the point where it was my identifier. "Oh you're the girls with long hair, right?" "Yeah, that's me." Now, while I didn't mind it, it wasn't something that I wanted to be known for. I love long hair, but I don't want it to be my definition. Now, you might think I was exaggerating, but with all honesty, I can state that my hair (however dead at the tips it was) reached down to my knees. It was very, very long. I constantly felt drowned, and my hair has a tendency to be frizzy, so it made me feel a little bit like a lion (which was a pro).

As I got older, however, I made the choice to cut it. At the time, it felt like a lot, but looking back on it, it wasn't much at all. When the operation was done, it reached to about halfway down my back. What I had cut, I donated to Locks of Love, which is a great cause. Now, I sort of wished I had cut it even shorter. I think everyone, at some point should experience both short and long hair, which is why I had wished I had cut more of it off when I was in high school - because that's the time to make mistakes. Now, it's grown back to my hips, but I refuse to let it grow back any further.

Short hair has always appeared very mature and elegant to me. I'm not sure if that' just me, but judging by the overwhelming number of people who are now making the choice to cut their hair, I feel like I'm not alone. Anything shoulder length and above, I view as very brave. Anything from shoulders to half way down the back I still admire. So here, I thought I would just make a little appreciation post about short hair. Because I love it.

Alicia Keys
Emeli Sande


Emma Watson

Anne Hathaway

Ingrid Nelsen
Jennifer Aniston







Lily Collins


Okay, yes. I have one larger than usual one. You guys know that this means that I have fallen in love with this more than anything else that I have displayed. Let me just start by telling you what a beautiful person Zoe Sugg is, both inside and out. On top of that, she is undoubtedly one of the most gorgeous people I have ever seen. So when she cut her hair short (and lopped off all her characteristic long hair in the process), my jaw dropped. But how stunning is she looking now?! Even to this day, her hair inspires and makes me love long hair even more. SO PRETTY! 


How would you describe your hair? And what would you change it to if you had the chance? 

Much love,

Duchess

Friday 24 July 2015

Suki Waterhouse Style

If there's one person I can always rely on to dress in something that will always slightly amaze/surprise/excite me, it's Suki Waterhouse. With her memorable style and my impressionable mind, it's easy to see why I was in awe when I first was exposed to all aspects of her style. Here I have compiled a short, sweet list of some of my favourite of her outfits or her looks, and a few of the ones that made me 'ooh' and 'ah' in amazement. Keep in mind, Waterhouse is definitely not my favourite (style) icon, I just am constantly excited to see what she'll put out of her hat next, and a few of those times, I have been delighted with what I saw. Also, for future reference, I do think Waterhouse is astoundingly beautiful, and some of these looks I would never even attempt to pull off because she has one of those styles that is the embodiment of uniquely cool, meaning that she's probably the only person who can pull off her style with high satisfaction (see: Kate Moss).

I mean, starting with her off-duty model looks, can we just admire how cool (for lack of better word) she is. Her hair, her make up, and she's possibly the only person I've seen that's ever had such a happy person in the background of their photo. That would probably be me if I ever got to stand in her presence - note the way she's smiling adoringly at the clothes rather than anything else. A lot of things here probably shouldn't work - the suit with the bag with the shoes - but somehow, in some realm of unfair-ness, Suki Waterhouse was blessed with the ability to wear and pull anything off. I absolutely adore her fringe (Americans, see 'bangs') and the colouring of her hair, as well as her characteristic natural make up and her solemn expression. Nothing looked this good in a horizontally striped suit, and although she doesn't show it, I am loving every stripe.


Moving onto these casual outfits, I'm again reminded of how I'm constantly surprised by what she's wearing. These ensembles almost seems tame in comparison to some of the others she's managed to throw together and I want every item she wears in these, including the suitcase. Can we also take note of her composure, when there's seems to be quite a few cameramen present. I love everything about these outfits, although white shoes have never been a good idea for me.


Next, moving onto some of the more formal and quite special looks she's pulled together, the following has got to be one of my favourites. That dress is so magical, and her hair and makeup, although some would call it dishevelled and unruly, I think completes her whole look. With her hands encompassing her slim waist and the dress falling neatly the rest of the way down, I imagine this dress to be in some way an interpretation of a modern day princess. With much more intrigue and passion in the way she carries herself and looks. I love this gown, and want it, with nowhere to wear it.


The next two outfits are more characteristic to the red carpet, but really caught my attention because of the similar looking trench coats she seems to be sporting. As a lover of coats, I find the fact that she can turn something so ordinary into a whimsical and essential looking accessory, fascinating. In both outfits, the sets would have appeared complete, but the addition of the coat adds that extra flavour that Waterhouse needed to make the outfits her own. Something I admire about her a lot! Both the ensembles under the outfits seem to have also won me over. I remember the initial awe I had when seeing the suit she wore to Cara Delevingne's Mulberry launch. I love a lot about both outfits below, but her curly turn wavy hair and distinct brows really set off this look for me into something truly her. 








The next two outfits really surprised me. Not because they weren't something I could've ever imagined her wearing, or anything like that, but rather because they really showed me her ability to wear things so diverse and pull them off. The photo of her in a gown shows a much more innocent, young Waterhouse, with her bright eyes and sweet smile. Her gown, of course, is breath taking, and seems to be tailored to fit her slender frame. I love the addition of the bold, thick silver belt as it really broke up the metallic material the rest of the gown was made of. The photo on the left shows us another side to Waterhouse which we are not always allowed to be exposed to. She looks absolutely beautiful. Her hair, her dress, her makeup, her shoes, her nails, her coat - timeless. I don't think I've ever seen someone so different dressed up so classic, and I love it.

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The next two outfits, I thought of pairing up simply because of their notable similar designs. The tulle skirt - am I a fan? Heck yes. I don't think anyone could pull off these particular designs with as much ease and elegance that Waterhouse manages to. Waterhouse looks ethereal in the pretty green dress with the tiered green colour effect. I love how innocent she looks, I love how magic she looks. I'd be lying if I didn't say that I haven't imagined this being a very cute elf/Tinkerbell outfit. I don't really feel the need to explain why I'm awestruck with the photo on the right. Wow, just... Wow. Look at her and stare. Given my similar slender frame and small bust, if I ever had the opportunity to go out and walk the red carpet someday, I know exactly who I would want to aspire to look like (as well as some input by Ms. Chung). I love everything about this look!























I hope you guys were also quite amazed by this young lady's ability to dress just as I was. Definitely not my own style inspiration, but I am impressed all the same by how different, and likeable, she is as a personality. Keep doing what you're doing!

Much love,

Duchess

Friday 17 July 2015

Passion

Hiya!
Bet that title caught your attention. In all honesty, if you clicked on this in hopes to find anything to fuel your imagination then you've probably taken a wrong turn. I was looking up my favourite chatty blog posts that people have done in the past that I adored and would like to recreate, about me, for my blog. One of the ones I stumbled across was someone writing about five passions that they have and how they influenced their life. Considering most of my blog posts consist of content that does not, in particular, relate to my personal life, I love just being able to sit down and write and feel like I'm chatting with you reading this.

If you follow my Twitter (find me here), or you've been reading my posts for a little bit, you'll know that I've recently returned to schooling after a little break. This break was not personal, but rather a break that everyone took. I just wanted to let you all know that I will be writing more chatty posts from now on, apart from the odd occasion where I may go out (in which case you'll have something different!). The time I would have spent in the past going out or on leisure activities, I will now have to spend studying as one of the more important years of my education are coming up.

So, here we go. I hope you enjoy and learn a little more about me!

1. Dancing: I've been dancing ever since I can remember. I used to dress up in my tiny little leotard and bounce around the room in my fairy tutu imitating those princesses on the TV until my mother couldn't stand me bruising my arm from falling over again. From the age of four, I've attended some dance school or the other. When I was younger, dancing used to be a little bit of a fun thing - I would have friends, we would be a little silly together and I would go home with no worries. As I aged, though, dancing stopped being something that I would look to to have a little bit of fun, but rather something that I looked forward to. It's one of the few things that I have, in my own responsibility, fully committed and stuck with for as long as I have. I also think that it's one of the many factors that assisted me in my obsession with health and exercise as I grew up. Right now I'm still being trained in the classical Cecchetti style of ballet, and have been since I was six or seven, and it's helped me build my posture, strength and endurance so much. I can safely say I would not be who I am today without the influence of dance.

2. Music: Around the same time I started training for Cecchetti ballet, I was enrolled into a very laid back keyboard class. From there, my love for piano started. I've been playing piano for a good number of years now, and I still get the same feeling of excitement whenever I sit on a piano stool and put my fingers on the keys. I also think that my love for piano stemmed into my love for music generally. I have had a lot of times in my life where I have experiments with a lot of different styles and genres of music, and I hope to write some kind of post about that at some point, but music has and always will be a big part of my life. Every individual person in my house also enjoys a very varied style of music, so my family has also had a huge impact on how I perceived, respected and admired music from a young age

3. Travel: Although suffering from the unfortunate fate of a student's budget, I have made so many untold plans to travel overseas and experience, well, life. I don't think my life will ever be complete or satisfied (as cliché as it sounds) until I have utilised all the opportunities I have been given to experience different cultures and places to their absolute maximum (and I do mean everything about the culture - food, clothes, everything). I have no doubt in my mind that I will travel the world, or to the extent that I see fit, because that is one of my absolute, non-negotiable wishes that I have been asking for ever since I knew it was possible travel. At first it was to see pretty places, but it soon evolved into so much more and I have a good feeling that this is one of those dreams that is going to stick until I achieve it.

4. Design: Not so much of the fashions sorts, although I do love creating and putting together new wardrobe assortments - it's just something I find myself enjoying, rather than being passionate about. My design is more on the spectrum of interior design. I have always been tucked away in my parent's house, with the ability to do what I want (with my parent's permission, of course) but I have always had it on my conscience that once I move out, what are they going to do with a room that just screams out my name. So the plan is to complete a uni course that I can pursue an enjoyable career in, and then go back to some sort of school that can offer me a qualification that I can do maybe in my spare time. I want it to act as two things - a sort of backup just in case the time comes, or a way of doing something I purely enjoy so I don't have to get bored and get lost. The idea of interior design, although unknown to me, must have stemmed from my absolute love of architecture when I was younger. I suppose as I grew up, that yearning shifted to the other side of things and now I hope to pursue the inside of the making.

5. The Future: Interpret this as you will, but I am obsessed with my future. I am without a doubt able to say that I know that my future is going to be so much more exciting than my past has proved to pan out and I am so ready. I'm not sure if this is just me, but I could spend hours, and even day, planning my life just as how I want it to be. Now this may seem weird to you, but it sets up competition with myself, for myself and this motivates me to strive for that goal. I don't deal well with competing with other people, but when I'm working towards my own personal goal (which people do not have to know about) it proves so much more effective in making me want to work, because I want to get there.

I hope this helped you understand me a little more. I wrote a quite a bit about my childhood and earlier years in here. Nostalgia!

Much love,

Duchess

Saturday 11 July 2015

Schooling Tips and Tricks: The Set Up

Hello!

Just a quick little update. As some of you may know, I've recently set up a Twitter account and am much more active on it than I ever thought I would be. I have a thing with social media where if I spend too much time on it, then I get a little panicky. There is a reason behind it, and one that I don't really want to go into right now, but I might explain it in another post. Anyway, I've discovered most of my favourite bloggers and Youtubers on it and it's getting me really involved in this particular community. It's also a brilliant platform if any of you would like to get in contact with me. If any of you would like to follow or get in contact with me, my Twitter can be found here.

Due to the fact that I have to get back to schooling soon and I am constantly going to have to be studying now (which I regretfully say) I thought it may help myself and other people if I created some sort of small series to help people who are going back to school as well. So here's the first instalment: The Set up.

No matter which course you go into, you will always receive a syllabus (or you can find one online) which will state what you need to learn, study and revise for any upcoming exams. It also provides an outline to what you will cover. Essentially, it acts as a basis and a backup for your course. For me, this is an essential part of my studying. Not really a part of the set up, but would just like to highlight how crucial your syllabus is.

Now to the actual set up. Before I begin, I would like to point out that studying is a different experience for everyone and all that I state will be what works for me. I would advise that you take time out to really find out what works for you, because that will be so helpful in the long run too.

For me, music is a no-no. Studies have shown, however, that headphones tend to decrease retention and memory whereas music in the background can aid some people. It all depends on how close the source of sound is to you. Some music - such as Bach and Beethoven - have even proved to help some people memorise and study more efficiently, but I have had no such luck. One thing that has no positives to it is working in front of a television, or any screen that has some sort of entertainment on it. This can directly interfere with your thoughts and your pattern of study, making it even more difficult to retain information. I will be the first to admit that if I learned something in a class or lecture that I fully understood, and I received work or assignments about it at home, I sometimes turn on the television as I sit on the couch and do my work. This is not advisable and should be avoided! I do, however, work a lot from my laptop. Whether it be taking notes on it during lessons, or gathering extra in information from it, it has become a crucial part to my studying process. It is a very tempting distraction, however, so if you have a tendency to give in very easily, I would try to refrain from using any digital gadgets where you can.


The location in which you study is also very dependent on the person. I prefer to study in my room, with my door locked so I can tucker down and close myself off for a few hours at a time. I also prefer to be alone, and I definitely work best if no one else is at home with me. When I do take breaks, I try to limit the time that I have outside of my room, as I can often get driven off to things that lead to doing other things, resulting in me subconsciously avoiding work. However, the bedroom or any other room can represent sleep and relaxation to some people, which results in them not having any motivation to do work. It is also a place of many distractions, so to be able to work effectively in a bedroom you have to be able to stay focused for excessive periods of time, without feeling the urge to check your phone, go on social media platforms, or anything like that often. 

Mixing up your study environment occasionally is often advised to stimulate your brain. I often do like to take my work some places, but they have to have a desk and a quiet area. Working on beds, or any other surface where I cannot fully focus, tends to draw my attention anyway and draw me towards sleep because that is what a bed represents to me. Study groups, especially those with people who are revising the same information as you, can be a very positive influence for some people, but as I tend to work better alone, I find myself getting easily distracted by them. This is especially evident when I study around some of my closer friends, because I often end up just chatting with them. For me, when I get out to study, I lean towards a library that has isolated stalls, or another, similar place. For people who do not attend university or college yet, although it may be a daunting experience the first time, uni and college libraries and general campuses have a multitude of places that have been designed especially for their students to study. I promise that once you get there, no one will pay much notice to you. They may seem very scary, but uni students are actually most of the time (when they are on campus) too absorbed in their own work to care about too much else. 

Some people even prefer noisier locations, as when you get too much background noise, your brain sometimes blocks it out. For me, this would never work but it is important to practically explore our options. 

Lighting and temperature may seem unimportant but actually can have a drastic effect on your mood and how you're feeling. Try to find a happy medium with lighting that isn't harsh but doesn't want to put you to sleep, and a place with consistent temperature. I prefer to be warm, whether this means turning the heater up or piling on a few extra layers, but it makes me feel even more focused.


This might lead onto the question of - when I study, what material should I take/what materials should I have with me? Of course, I cannot answer this question so that it covers everybody. With every course, there comes a whole new set of materials and course work. This is another advantage of working from home - you have everything on hand. When you go out and study, you should triple check to make sure that you have all you need when you leave. If you do go out, do not set yourself the task of going over all your courses and studying everything. I may not be able to generalise on many things I have said in this post, but I can assure you that this will never work. If you go out, give yourself two or three subjects in which you have narrowed down even further what you need to go over and make sure that you have a basic outline of what you're going to study. There's nothing worse than going out to study, pulling out your books and materials and then having no clue what you're reading, with no one to ask. 

When I work from home, I study one subject at a time, because flipping and switching does not work for me at all. In between topics in a subject, I like to take five minute breaks, and in between subjects I like to take at least fifteen minute breaks, in which I refuel. On my table, I have to have all the physical books, materials and resources that I need to go through all I want to before my next break. If they are not on my table, and I constantly have to be getting up, I get drowsy and bored much more quickly as I am constantly being exposed to distractions. So make sure you have everything you need with you on hand. I also have to have my pencil box/case with me. However, life becomes much easier when I take everything out from it and lay them out on my table for easy access. 

Highlighting is a tricky thing as some people have a tendency to overcompensate with the colour that they put on their pages (I come from experience). One trick a friend advised me is to colour coordinate your information - for example, green could be for key dates, yellow could be for important people and so on. This did not work for me at first, and I still have trouble with this, but I have slowly trained myself into some sort of compromise. I highlight what I absolutely need to, and then right out the key points of what I have had to highlight. This has registered in my brain as less writing, which means a less ache-y arm. Of course, if you received a document that is crucial to your studies, do not compromise on your information because you want a less ache-y arm.


I like to write in lead and red pens when I study. Lead makes it easier to scribble notes around and add information to, and writing in red makes it really establish in my brain as hard fact. Blue and black pens are kept on hand if need be because they can come in handy for taking side notes or scribbling on post it notes. 

That's something that I forgot to mention and show! I'm not sure what they're called universally, but I call them post it notes. They're the little paper tabs with stickiness on the back of them that you can attach to paper and things to make little notes on or mark an important passage or page. These are important to my studying process. I find them excessively handy in writing little side notes which I stick next to passages. They also prove useful when you are studying out of a textbook and don't want to damage or mark it, and you can stick a post it note to write notes on and not permanently vandalise the book.

Apart from that I don't really like having anything else on my table. As far as snacks go, I like to have something that I wouldn't normally crave - so anything like cookies is a big no. There are some food that have proven to increase brain performance, such as celery with peanut butter, and I tend to lean towards snacks like this. Celery with peanut butter is a snack I consume on a day to day basis, as it really can fill you up and make you feel very awake.


Finally, and because I do do this a lot, I would encourage you to clean out your mind and physical area before you study. Any worry, distractions or other problems should be out of your head before you sit down to study for long period of time. Make sure you aren't worrying about how messy your room is as you sit down, and if you are, do something about it. Make sure that fight you're having with your friend is out of your head, even if it means taking some sort of radical movement to do so, before you try to concentrate too hard. Meditation, although it may put you off a little, has actually proved to help people who have trouble studying due to prior concerns. It is the most important thing to be completely aware of your mind and surroundings when you study, and have the capability to drown them out.


That's all for now. If you have any additional tips about the set up and environment of studying, and what works for you, leave them in the comments or tweet them to me. If you have any exams, tests, or just schooling coming up - good luck! I believe everyone is capable of doing well in whatever they pursue, they just has to learn how to harness their natural intelligence.

Much love,

Duchess

Friday 3 July 2015

Control Over Myself

Hello everyone!

I can already tell that this is going to be a short post, because it's not something I really want to go too in depth about, but I really wanted to talk to someone about. Now, it isn't something that I want to go around advocating or anything but, I have mentioned this before, it is something that I really feel deeply about:

Your thoughts and emotions should only be influenced by yourself. 

I know, from experience, that some people may find this hard. The thing is that I am lucky enough to have a close knit group of friends that I love spending time with.

 I should be in complete control of how I feel and how I treat myself. I should also be in control of all my actions and the way I go around doing, well, everything. My thoughts and my emotions should be completely and utterly dependent on me. So I guess you could say I could take a slice of my own pie.

I'm a work in progress, but I'm my own work in my own progress. And that is enough.

Much love,

Duchess